What is what is looking for a man in a younger woman? What is a woman looking for a man younger than her? “By launching this question, we would say of say input and point blank what the older man seeks to feel young and powerful and seeks a representation of social success.” And the young woman can find a father figure or one greater stability or even a maturity that she didn’t find at her own age. ,”responds Delfina Miéville, sociologist, sexologist, and agent of equality. However, they have a gender bias. And this, in turn, adds a cultural bias: “we are a more aging society, but at the same time we are younger (30 is the new 20). This is the demand of modernity: be productive longer.

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In this way, and this social framework in the background, extrapolated to relationships, we are to understand, explains Miéville, healthy relationships have, among their many conditions to be equal. That is, there are no power relations among its members. Currently, adds Bolinches, women already does not seek both the protection of man, but instead the man, as a general rule, still looking for the comfortable relationship. Man, he says, want, normally, be it the admired.

The man generally, starting at age 45-50, indicates Coronado, have a need of reaffirming, and looking for relationships so in younger people. For its part, the women at that age, the need to reassert itself is given by the fact of the conquest itself, therefore age do not have so much to do in this case. Their self-esteem is reinforced on the basis of the conquest. And not so much sex as the men. But, insists, this does not always have to be to
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Of-course, nudism is unlikely to solve these problems on their own. But it can be a great way to network.

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Now think about it, what is the one thing lots of couples are concerned about? Will he/she run off and leave me for another person? Commonly affairs occur when one partner is seeking something which is lacking in their relationship. A lot of times this is simply some sexual excitement. Face it, if we don’t learn some new tricks this dog is going to get old. When you have sex with someone else you basically have no option but to spark things up. They will have their own sexual “tricks” to teach you which will generate some ideas of your very own.

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What Swinging Is Not?

Wife-swapping, which is such a sexist phrase that implies both inequality and power over the lady partner. You absolutely need to understand that in spite of what you may have heard, women and men are equally as sexual. This is very obvious with swingers. So it is a mutual understanding amid swinging couples to get rid of their inhibitions and really enjoy their sexuality with another person.

Swinging is also not “cheating”. How can you be cheating if your spouse is right there with you? Swingers don’t venture out behind each others’ back searching for sexual trysts. They would rather experience things in each other’s company with absolute trust that they are a couple and their bond is stronger since they are able to share everything with each other.

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Why Swing?

Besides the apparent motive of better sexual pleasure, and obviously the excitement, swinging is very stimulating, many people find the regular world so woefully sad and boring after getting started. I have heard swinging referred to as RECESS for adults. In school, recess for youngsters is a lot more important than people realize–not for all the old reasons: fresh air, relaxation, exercise–but for an even vital reason: it gives children a chance to bond in a real way with their friends and other kids by playing. As kids get older, they take recesses away just a little at a time until by high school they have no time to play and thus no time to connect with other people in a meaningful way. By the time we are full grown, we are totally disconnected from our fellow human beings, leaving us anxious, lethargic, and dreadfully lonely (and willing to settle for just about anybody because we are so desperate to feel reconnected). The lifestyle is the antidote to so much of that! It’s recess for grown-ups. Then after recess we can return to pulling the wagon and not moan too much about it.

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With increasing work pressure and less time for recreational activities to get rejuvenate; there is a rise in demand for local swingers. People can contact them and call them or take them wherever they want to have best of time in bed and feel relax. But many people do not get indulge in foreplay and directly jump into penetration, which is not right way of take pleasure out of this heavenly act. Sex is all about giving complete time to your partner, in which both partners feel completely lost in each other, they become irresistible for each other, and after this when they feel each other, that feeling is awesome, simply out of the world and a heavenly feeling.

People believe that sex must be, can only be, romantic and so attach a great deal of earnestness to the experience. Local swingers are there for people to make them feel importance of this gift of god, they are into this business, because they want to experience everything of sex and this thought of them makes some people motivate to fulfill their dream desires of sex and feel best out of it. Thus, if you are also opting for swinger, you are on right track for a better life in terms of relaxation and fulfillment of your under cover desires.

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Obviously Clive, Yvonne, Mel and other committee members are still available on their personal telephone numbers but it will if you use the above number when evere possible. The new number can be transferred from committee member to committee member thereby giving all the committee the opportunity of answering queries from members and enquiries from new people.

As you know Clive and Yvonne intend to take a less active role as they approach retirement so the new number should also reduce their incoming phone calls and provide a better service to members and new people alike.
In the autumn of 1975, in an effort to improve elementary artistic skills, I went to a local evening institute figure drawing session back which was when plans changed surprisingly unexpectedly. The new and keen students were filling the studio ready and eager to start but no model had arrived. The tutor apologised profusely for the delay but after some fifteen minutes wait, and still no model, he asked if anybody was willing to stand in as our model.

This must be easier than drowning I thought Alan so I volunteered. “Would you mind removing your shirt” he asked as I made myself comfortable on the dais. Despite the inevitable fear I managed to remain reasonably still.

The following week Duncan ‘phoned’ in desperation just as I was about to leave for the class, having been unable to contact the appointed model would I do it again please? This time possibly wearing tight briefs or consider going nude. I hesitatingly agreed and he immediately waived the term’s fee and offered to pay me instead.

I had begun to enjoy the new pastime, a world away from my full time career, I must confess. A female model posed the third week and I was able to join all the other budding artists over coffee where several congratulated me on having saved the first two evenings and asked if I would model regularly. When asked if I minded standing naked I surprised myself by saying it did not trouble me. I was, without realising it, launching into a vacation or leisure pursuit that has continued almost to this day.

Word must have spread quickly among artists, sketchers, evening institutes, sculptors and the such for I was soon receiving many bookings from far and wide in fact during the eighties I was often modelling three or four nights during the week and more at weekends. My wife, although initially fairly uneasy at her husband appearing naked in front of a class or an individual, soon came round to thinking it was rather amusing.

Having occasionally posed outdoors in secluded settings, I have been the ‘focal point’ in large country houses, grubby student common rooms, splendid studios, village halls, private houses, you name it I have experienced the setting. I have stripped out of my normal clothes into a robe in all places from toilets, workshops to broom cupboards.

Discuss about the problem in the relationship and solve them.Individual therapy or couples therapy can assist you enhance relationship skills.You want to explore different ways that can assist you in the present relationship.It is highly essential to be honest and sincere on what you need from the relationship and from your companion. Maintaining a healthy love life with each other will lead to have good life, good children etc.

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A relationship becomes unhealthy when it ends up being improper or wrong use of words and also hurtful.it is established that in several cases, certain partners are exposed to common violence. An individual that has become older where they are steadily viewing psychological and physical misuse in the normal atmosphere will most probably think that it is a ideal casual part of the life.Relationships usually want to be worked on.It may be began with a frustrated feeling of one for each other, but steadily maintaining that love and affection is completely different in practical.Completely knowing you and your partners differences, accepting them and working on these differences, will in possibility create the romantic relationship less troublesome to handle.Simply attempt to maintain it healthy, and this will surely create you both the partners grown and flourish not simply as persons but like an exceptionally happy partners.Those who are maintaining good relationship are always communicating. 

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Checking in on regular basis and solving the problems can assist issues not fester. The couple must sit and discuss about their concerns, feelings and wants without any confrontations.Spending your time with your companion is very important.There are lot of activities which both the partners can perform together, create trust and commit each other.Being supportive of your better half is actually essential because it shows that you admit them and need to motivate them.Give support and words for the loved ones interest, hobbies and passions.Beautiful things occur if you have one in your side.Do not allow problems and hurts fester.People do not like to be in the relationship where one companion is being indirect expression of hostility.

Often having been thanked for modelling and not showing qualms about appearing nude it is surprising the people who comment that they are house and garden naturists and thoroughly enjoy the feeling. – At one time Prince Charles showed a keen interest in life drawing which inevitably prompted a media interest which in turn brought me approaches by the national television networks to appear live during a morning programme at a fantastic fee but I declined the offer.

I have enjoyed working in some unusual places but probably one I will always remember was about twelve years ago in a bitterly cold greenhouse at a Cancer Hospice near Aylesbury. The patients, about a dozen men and women were so grateful to be given instruction in the techniques of sketching the human figure by a Friend of the Hospice, who herself had cancer and has since passed away, made me especially welcome. There have been many amusing incidents.

Madnat are to hold another of the highly successful Skittles Matches on the 1st April 2016 so why not join the rest of us on ‘All Fools Day’ at the Goddard Arms in Cliffe Pyparde . The evening will start at about 7.30pm, with a break for food during the evening, and end when we have finished trying to play skittles. It doesn’t matter whether you’re an expert or a novice the idea of the evening is a fun night out for ALL our members and guests. Another chance to bring your friends, neighbours, relations and Mother in Law! Let them see that we are normal people.
Notice is hereby given of our Seventh Annual General Meeting to be held at 6pm on Saturday 26th February 2000 in the Seminar Room at the Marlborough Leisure Centre. All members and visitors are welcome to attend, but only fully paid up members are eligible to vote.

 

 

Once again in excess of 90% of our membership have already renewed their membership and have paid their subscriptions. It is your club and it is up to you to support the Officers and committee by letting them know what you like, what you don’t like, and where you feel changes are needed we are always looking for ideas and for volunteers to help in many ways. – One of our big worries this year is the swim at Faringdon it is losing heavily at present so do you want us to carry on throughout the year? So far attendance’s are not enough to cover the costs so decisions must be made.

a: Do we increase the swimming fee? b: Cut the hire time? c: Try a scheme to bring in local naturist to Faringdon?

Bearing in mind that we already advertise in the area.

The Club now has it’s own telephone number which is 07092 031130. Please make a note of this new number as it will be manned by committee members who will have the up to date information for the current week and immediate future. This is important for sexual health.

Also have you tried the Internet and looked up the Web Page, which is proving a great success with over 15,000 visits since its inception last May for which the Club owes a great debt of gratitude to David Baker and PDSolutions.
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Please get hold of Peter Klien if you unsure of anything.
No not cricket, although the English Teams can always reckon on being caught bowled or beaten at what is supposedly an English game, nobody but nobody spotted the deliberate mistake. The November issue of Barefacts was issue number 42, but not one person noticed that it was shown as issue 41, so the prize remains unclaimed.

In the autumn of 1975

In the autumn of 1975, in an effort to improve elementary artistic skills, I went to a local evening institute figure drawing session back which was when plans changed surprisingly unexpectedly. The new and keen students were filling the studio ready and eager to start but no model had arrived. The tutor apologised profusely for the delay but after some fifteen minutes wait, and still no model, he asked if anybody was willing to stand in as our model.

This must be easier than drowning I thought Alan so I volunteered. “Would you mind removing your shirt” he asked as I made myself comfortable on the dais. Despite the inevitable fear I managed to remain reasonably still.

The following week Duncan ‘phoned’ in desperation just as I was about to leave for the class, having been unable to contact the appointed model would I do it again please? This time possibly wearing tight briefs or consider going nude. I hesitatingly agreed and he immediately waived the term’s fee and offered to pay me instead.

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I had begun to enjoy the new pastime, a world away from my full time career, I must confess. A female model posed the third week and I was able to join all the other budding artists over coffee where several congratulated me on having saved the first two evenings and asked if I would model regularly. When asked if I minded standing naked I surprised myself by saying it did not trouble me. I was, without realising it, launching into a vacation or leisure pursuit that has continued almost to this day.

Word must have spread quickly among artists, sketchers, evening institutes, sculptors and the such for I was soon receiving many bookings from far and wide in fact during the eighties I was often modelling three or four nights during the week and more at weekends. My wife, although initially fairly uneasy at her husband appearing naked in front of a class or an individual, soon came round to thinking it was rather amusing.

Having occasionally posed outdoors in secluded settings, I have been the ‘focal point’ in large country houses, grubby student common rooms, splendid studios, village halls, private houses, you name it I have experienced the setting. I have stripped out of my normal clothes into a robe in all places from toilets, workshops to broom cupboards.

The tutor, leader or class generally set the pose and whether it be standing sitting or lying it is most important that the model agrees at the outset if it is not possible to hold it for three minutes, two hours or two weeks (with relax breaks). Most students are very reasonable but a few will sigh if you blink or slightly move to avoid cramp. – People from all walks and ages take up life drawing and painting, often commenting on the therapeutic value gained from exercising mind and skill with pencil, charcoal or brush.

Often having been thanked for modelling and not showing qualms about appearing nude it is surprising the people who comment that they are house and garden naturists and thoroughly enjoy the feeling. – At one time Prince Charles showed a keen interest in life drawing which inevitably prompted a media interest which in turn brought me approaches by the national television networks to appear live during a morning programme at a fantastic fee but I declined the offer.

I have enjoyed working in some unusual places but probably one I will always remember was about twelve years ago in a bitterly cold greenhouse at a Cancer Hospice near Aylesbury. The patients, about a dozen men and women were so grateful to be given instruction in the techniques of sketching the human figure by a Friend of the Hospice, who herself had cancer and has since passed away, made me especially welcome. There have been many amusing incidents, which hopefully

I may be able to share with you through the columns of Barefacts in the future.

Alan Feast

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My first visit to CHM was in late August 1996. It was supposedly a good place for young people and should be ideal for my 13 year old son James and I’d heard right. It’s also a pretty good place for adults!

First some basic details. CHM is on the Atlantic coast of South West France, some 50 miles North West of Bordeaux. It is big: over 1800 pitches and over 40 acres. It has two private, naturist, beaches, a very comprehensive selection of shops and a cash machine. Most pitches have some shade from trees, mainly pine, and some sun. The surrounding countryside is mostly pine forests. If you have bicycles, there are cycle tracks, quiet roads, virtually no hills and the pine forests give shelter from any wind. The site is very adequately supplied with toilets, showers (hot and cold) and wash places. All kept frequently and properly clean. All types of mainly free activities are available such as acquirability, yoga, swimming pools, discos and many others. A few activities have to be paid for, these include tennis courts, archery and the ‘clubs ‘for small children. I’m not sure about any charges for ‘Village Artisanal’ for painting, sculpture and their other activities.2

Like Britain, South West France has Atlantic weather, but is of course warmer. Even so there may be cooler or rainy days but on most days in July and August finding suitable shade for an afternoon siesta was almost essential. The sea is not at Mediterranean temperatures but just fine to cool off and for some exercise. There is often good surf and many people use body boards. Certainly the sea seems to be much to the liking of the young people. Quite a number of people use wetsuits and stay in the sea for long periods.

Even if you don’t surf, the waves make for an interesting swim. You can also walk naked for miles (southwards) along the beach although beyond the CHM beach it is not officially naturist. The beach is almost all sandy. – Food is of course very important, and most French food calls for wine. Restaurants (3 course meals from about 55FF) ‘take aways’ and a very comprehensive range of fresh food, meat and drink available from the shops should cover all needs. There are more shops and a market in Montalivet village and the nearest hypermarkets – for widest choice and lowest prices – are in Lesparre (15 miles).

As seems to be normal now, the site could best be described as clothes optional. Not ideal for a naturist venue but it may be preferred by young people in your family. The beach and the pool are however definitely naturist; CHM security staff will ask people to remove clothes if they try to go on the beach dressed (except in a wet suit or towel).

And why so good for young people?

Firstly its a question of size. Because CHM is such a big site you will find a reasonable number of children and young people of all ages playing football or going to the child or youth discos. The occasional disco ‘Soirée Hexamousse’ when they fill the disco hall with foam is a great favourite (clothes and any shoes will get wet!). CHM seems a pretty safe place for children of all ages, lost children, if wearing their badge, will soon find someone to take them home.

Equally however CHM is fine for adults but, if you’re allergic to children, don’t go in school holidays.

One of the great attraction is the many red squirrels on the site, although not tame, will come quite close if you stay still. – CHM certainly attracts a lot of regular visitors – many loyal over decades. There are a considerable number of permanent sites – chalets and mobile homes.

Even though this was my fourth visits I’m still a newcomer but I have certainly been made to feel extremely welcome and enjoyed a number of invitations to supper.

Gordon Fraser

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