Now think about it, what is the one thing lots of couples are concerned about? Will he/she run off and leave me for another person? Commonly affairs occur when one partner is seeking something which is lacking in their relationship. A lot of times this is simply some sexual excitement. Face it, if we don’t learn some new tricks this dog is going to get old. When you have sex with someone else you basically have no option but to spark things up. They will have their own sexual “tricks” to teach you which will generate some ideas of your very own.
What Swinging Is Not?
Wife-swapping, which is such a sexist phrase that implies both inequality and power over the lady partner. You absolutely need to understand that in spite of what you may have heard, women and men are equally as sexual. This is very obvious with swingers. So it is a mutual understanding amid swinging couples to get rid of their inhibitions and really enjoy their sexuality with another person.
Swinging is also not “cheating”. How can you be cheating if your spouse is right there with you? Swingers don’t venture out behind each others’ back searching for sexual trysts. They would rather experience things in each other’s company with absolute trust that they are a couple and their bond is stronger since they are able to share everything with each other.
Besides the apparent motive of better sexual pleasure, and obviously the excitement, swinging is very stimulating, many people find the regular world so woefully sad and boring after getting started. I have heard swinging referred to as RECESS for adults. In school, recess for youngsters is a lot more important than people realize–not for all the old reasons: fresh air, relaxation, exercise–but for an even vital reason: it gives children a chance to bond in a real way with their friends and other kids by playing. As kids get older, they take recesses away just a little at a time until by high school they have no time to play and thus no time to connect with other people in a meaningful way. By the time we are full grown, we are totally disconnected from our fellow human beings, leaving us anxious, lethargic, and dreadfully lonely (and willing to settle for just about anybody because we are so desperate to feel reconnected). The lifestyle is the antidote to so much of that! It’s recess for grown-ups. Then after recess we can return to pulling the wagon and not moan too much about it.
With increasing work pressure and less time for recreational activities to get rejuvenate; there is a rise in demand for local swingers. People can contact them and call them or take them wherever they want to have best of time in bed and feel relax. But many people do not get indulge in foreplay and directly jump into penetration, which is not right way of take pleasure out of this heavenly act. Sex is all about giving complete time to your partner, in which both partners feel completely lost in each other, they become irresistible for each other, and after this when they feel each other, that feeling is awesome, simply out of the world and a heavenly feeling.
People believe that sex must be, can only be, romantic and so attach a great deal of earnestness to the experience. Local swingers are there for people to make them feel importance of this gift of god, they are into this business, because they want to experience everything of sex and this thought of them makes some people motivate to fulfill their dream desires of sex and feel best out of it. Thus, if you are also opting for swinger, you are on right track for a better life in terms of relaxation and fulfillment of your under cover desires.
Obviously Clive, Yvonne, Mel and other committee members are still available on their personal telephone numbers but it will if you use the above number when evere possible. The new number can be transferred from committee member to committee member thereby giving all the committee the opportunity of answering queries from members and enquiries from new people.
As you know Clive and Yvonne intend to take a less active role as they approach retirement so the new number should also reduce their incoming phone calls and provide a better service to members and new people alike.
In the autumn of 1975, in an effort to improve elementary artistic skills, I went to a local evening institute figure drawing session back which was when plans changed surprisingly unexpectedly. The new and keen students were filling the studio ready and eager to start but no model had arrived. The tutor apologised profusely for the delay but after some fifteen minutes wait, and still no model, he asked if anybody was willing to stand in as our model.
This must be easier than drowning I thought Alan so I volunteered. “Would you mind removing your shirt” he asked as I made myself comfortable on the dais. Despite the inevitable fear I managed to remain reasonably still.
The following week Duncan ‘phoned’ in desperation just as I was about to leave for the class, having been unable to contact the appointed model would I do it again please? This time possibly wearing tight briefs or consider going nude. I hesitatingly agreed and he immediately waived the term’s fee and offered to pay me instead.
I had begun to enjoy the new pastime, a world away from my full time career, I must confess. A female model posed the third week and I was able to join all the other budding artists over coffee where several congratulated me on having saved the first two evenings and asked if I would model regularly. When asked if I minded standing naked I surprised myself by saying it did not trouble me. I was, without realising it, launching into a vacation or leisure pursuit that has continued almost to this day.
Word must have spread quickly among artists, sketchers, evening institutes, sculptors and the such for I was soon receiving many bookings from far and wide in fact during the eighties I was often modelling three or four nights during the week and more at weekends. My wife, although initially fairly uneasy at her husband appearing naked in front of a class or an individual, soon came round to thinking it was rather amusing.
Having occasionally posed outdoors in secluded settings, I have been the ‘focal point’ in large country houses, grubby student common rooms, splendid studios, village halls, private houses, you name it I have experienced the setting. I have stripped out of my normal clothes into a robe in all places from toilets, workshops to broom cupboards.
Often having been thanked for modelling and not showing qualms about appearing nude it is surprising the people who comment that they are house and garden naturists and thoroughly enjoy the feeling. – At one time Prince Charles showed a keen interest in life drawing which inevitably prompted a media interest which in turn brought me approaches by the national television networks to appear live during a morning programme at a fantastic fee but I declined the offer.
I have enjoyed working in some unusual places but probably one I will always remember was about twelve years ago in a bitterly cold greenhouse at a Cancer Hospice near Aylesbury. The patients, about a dozen men and women were so grateful to be given instruction in the techniques of sketching the human figure by a Friend of the Hospice, who herself had cancer and has since passed away, made me especially welcome. There have been many amusing incidents.